My Battle ~ 2011

It’s a New Year!

Quite honestly, I’m very happy to be here….more than I can express

I’ve had to begin a new page here, for the other one was becoming impossible to edit.

Hmmm, methinks that the intentions of adding pages to a blog are not that they run on and on..and on!   Too bad that I can’t have ‘regular’ blog options when adding a new page..but this is how it is and I really can’t create a new blog for my updates..what a mess that would be to transfer everything.  Anyway, my story from the beginning – 2008 thru the end of 2010 – remains.

Here we go into 2011!

I will try my best to answer your comments.  Yes, I was pretty lacking in that department and I wish I had a good excuse..other than being overwhelmed by everything.   Know that I count you All as having played a part in my longevity!  Your warm wishes and prayers most certainly went into action and I Thank You With All My Heart ♥

My other page describes first being diagnosed with a sarcoma called ‘Undifferentiated Uterine Sarcoma..also known as Endometrial Stromal Sarcoma’  ..  through time and more opinions by specialists in sarcoma, my diagnosis was finally confirmed to be Uterine Leiomyosarcoma (uLMS for short).

You can read more about uLMS  here

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January 13, 2011

Nothing to report, all is well

I have a scan coming up soon and it will be before my next treatment (Jan. 27 & 28)..hoping to see more shrinkage.

Until that next update, I have some images to show you.  They are xrays of my left shoulder/collarbone when my situation was first discovered by the orthopedist…and what my collarbone looks like now.  Recall that I told you that the bone was regenerating?

First the cancer destroyed much of my collarbone..now, the bone has encased the cancer..it’s wild.  There’s a pretty large tumor in there, described as measuring 4-5cm in length, 3-4cm in width..  but hoping that the last zap of radiation has knocked the wind of out of it

*hoping these won’t skeeve some of you out

here is a  normal shoulder xray (not mine)

normal shoulder/collarbone

images comparing my shoulder from May 2008 and December 2010

May 2008 .. December 2010

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January 25, 2011

Saw Dr.Jazz for results of the CT scan (done Friday) and, while I so hoped to hear of more shrinkage, I was told that I am stable.  No shrinkage

Yes, I’m disappointed even though I’m stable.   I had really, really wanted to know that the chemo was still kicking butt in there (my lungs).
This isn’t to say that there won’t be more shrinkage in the future… I wanted to trust that the tumors would get much smaller so that, when the crap hits the fan again (i.e. = growth, showing that the chemo has failed), there would be more ‘room’..and to get that big tumor from compressing my heart.

I will be going to Froedtert this coming Thurs/Fri for treatment and look forward to words of hope from Dr. Charlson.   Maybe he’s seen this plateau before, with a surge of shrinkage afterward.  I hope so

I brought along the pictures of my shoulder xrays, to show to Dr. Jazz. He shook his head in wonder
I asked him if there may be a problem in the future, if the bone grows so that it impinges on the other bones.  He agrees that may happen but we’ll just have to wait…

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January 29, 2011

Had a bit of a low week after getting the news that the lung tumors hadn’t shrunk as before.  Being Stable is Good News..but I just so wanted further, dramatic shrinkage. Yes, I set myself up for a fall *sigh

When I see Dr. Jazz for results of a CT scan I always request the written report for myself.  I cannot get the report until after the scan has been reviewed with me, by Dr. Jazz.  Knowing that this is MY body and MY report, you’d think they’d allow me to review the written report before I see my doctor, so that I can have a handle on the info and have questions available and to bring up a fact or two that is in the report.  They have fear that I’d jump to wild conclusions, misinterpretations, and fall in a big, black hole or something.  Anyway…

I finally got to see the report when I arrived in Milwaukee.  Dr Charlson and his PA both saw me and both were very surprised that I was a bit low about the results.  I explained my feelings, my anxiety..concerns and worry.  Then I told them I hadn’t seen the report yet = that the staff at GB Onc couldn’t get the computers to release it for me after seeing Dr. Jazz . . some glitch.

They got the report and showed me..and I saw what was left out at my meeting with Dr. Jazz.  I don’t blame him..he’s a busy man and he must have just not noticed or he’d forgotten..

This is what jumps out as so positive and what Dr. Charlson and his PA wanted me to see ..describing multiple pulmonary (lung) nodules:

“These appear partially calcified.”

I looked at them both as I said that..and they both nodded and brightened their eyes.

Yes, this means tumor cell death.  The tumors are dying.

I bring along the CT scan CD for Dr. Charlson and he brought it up on his screen..and was happy to see that the December scan was included..so he had side by side to compare..and he liked what he saw.  It pays to have another pair of eyes and I’m very thankful that he always wants to see the actual scans.  He takes a lot of time with me.. he’s very involved, very caring, very informative, he’s a great Doc.  He’s very pleased with my progress and will see me again in mid-February..  my next treatment.

So!  The words of Hope I was seeking from this visit with Dr. Charlson and his PA came and were better than I’d wished for

I’m back in my happy bubble..  lalalala..la la

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March 23, 2011

I didn’t have chemo in Milwaukee, as planned, two weeks ago.

Instead, I was hospitalized locally for several days.

I’m home now and I feel fine..here’s what’s up:

A week before my last chemo (in February) I realized that my port was infected.  Dr. Jazz put me on oral antibiotics for 10 days.  Dr. Charlson in Milwaukee, agreed that I could have the chemo while taking the meds.  He extended the prescription for another ten days.  The infection appeared to be cleared by the time I arrived to Milwaukee but he wanted to play it safe, since chemo would lower my immune resistance.

I finished the meds and all was well..  then Bam..the infection came roaring back, ten times worse than previous.  My neck/lymph nodes were very swollen and hard, painful, ..everywhere around the port was red, swollen, and tender. It looked like I had a goiter ..  not a good look

Dr. Jazz switched my antibiotic to a stronger sort, in hopes that we could knock it out. After a week, it was still somewhat swollen and inflamed, so he and Dr. Charlson decided I shouldnt have chemo.  They, too, decided that the port should come out and I should go into hospital for IV antibiotics.

Wednesday I was admitted and they took out my port.  Cultures were taken.  Friday I had a PICC line installed in my arm, a temporary measure for IV antibiotics and chemo..until the infection is cleared and I can get a new port installed.

I am now a proud owner of an IV pole It and all antibiotic IV supplies were couriered here from Milwaukee, a local Home Health Care nurse showed me how to hang the drip..  and I had to do this every eight hours for ten days.  Thankfully it’s not a staph bug so that saved me from having to IV for six weeks, as well as miss out on the chemo that keeps the tumors at bay.

The infection is now cleared and I look forward to resuming chemo Tomorrow and Friday!  Yes, I actually said that I welcome it..  Hey!  It’s my miracle potion = no complaints!

On a positive note = I had a CT scan recently and I remain Stable

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April 13, 2011

I have to say.. =   I’m so freakin lucky   ..*I won’t go into detail..  just know that I am!

..after that pronouncement? I feel a jinx, so will knock on wood

*tap tap tap

ok..  let me take a breath  *In.. hold..  Out

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I have 4 sisters!

My eldest sister is my charm!  I adore her.  I tell her in jest? no, it’s true.  I tell her that she is my surrogate Mother and she appreciates it.

I love her!  She’s always been my anchor..  she IS my Godmother..  and my Big sis..  my surrogate mom   hahaa..

I’ve been through a lot since February.  oy!  antibiotics to the degree that I now have thrush.. *sigh.  Three surgeries (the last one a week ago).   Yes! they weren’t major but they invade and disrupt.

I count my blessings each day..

I do

but I need a break!

so..  I will have chemo tomorrow and Friday..  hang out and sleep and all that, for a few days..

and then?.. when my vigor and my taste-buds return:

I’ve arranged for my eldest sis and me to have a luxurious lunch with a bit of indulgent shopping!

I can’t wait!!

This lil interlude will signify, to me, the end of a few months of CRAP!!   hahaa

I want to see this as a NEW beginning… and it is SPRING, after all

yes!!  yeehawww! ..  let’s GO!

New beginnings..  dust off the Winter..  Spring is here!

..plus?  She’s just so darn loving, fun, and sweet!  I yearn to spend an afternoon with her, all to myself

much love to you!  ALL

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May 03, 2011

everything..  has..  gone wrong

I had a funny feeling when I bought a new pair of jammies to wear for my treatment stays in Milwaukee.

I had the same foreboding when Bruce came home with a ‘gently used’ overnight bag with wheels = that a customer gave him at the Enterprise counter.

..like a jinx feeling.. ‘don’t get too complacent and comfortable’

I won’t be wearing those jammies in Milwaukee nor using my wheels to get my bag from the parking facility to my room at Froedtert.

I’ll be off the trial now..  the Yondelis has stopped working

I had a CT Friday and had that feeling..  foreboding.. and that instinct was correct.  The growth in my lungs is firing up.  I have no new tumors elsewhere..  just the damn lung tumors that are so willful as to not lay down and sleep..  nor die.

What now?   I don’t know..  cry?  yeah..

I’ll be talking with Dr Charlson’s nurse soon (today) and possibly with Dr Charlson, himself.  I think I still have to go to Milwaukee to give them the scanCD and to sign out of the study..  what a long trip that will be

I will ask that Dr Charlson (Milwaukee) remain my doctor, since he’s a sarcoma specialist.

Dr. Jazz welcomes his and Dr Bailey’s (UWMadison) input of what to do with me, next  ..  as do i   ..I’m going to need their help

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May 06, 2011 

Two postings..catching up as of last Friday (may 06) and Monday (may 09)  ..

I had a tough week.

But..  watching this video ..oh..  about 50 times a day certainly cheered me up

Today Bruce and I met with Dr. Charlson/Milwaukee…along with two of his staff.  We spoke of options, ideas, and Hope.

We talked for an hour.  The guy is interested, focused, and makes me believe that I am his only patient.  There is no rush, no looking at his watch..  he is there..present..involved..confident.

I walked in with an idea of how I wanted the consult to go and he more than met the challenge.  I left with Hope and am much more secure with knowledge of what the next few months may bring.  It doesn’t appear so bleak now.

With some information I sent him, after returning home  ..  that he’ll be discussing with Dr. Jazz before Monday = we should have a plan of treatment to be implemented very soon.  If the first plan doesn’t pan out, we have a second plan.

While these plans are in the works, we’ll also be considering a ‘fresh’ biopsy to send to a lab..  to test for potential targeted therapy.  In short, seeing what cells, etc. make up the tumor and what drug may be the Ninja to wipe the scumbags out.  More on this when I have better info..

I also will probably have another ultrasound of the vein into which the new port is implanted.  I may have a clotting problem…as in, my blood clots too readily.  If I do, I will need to take daily belly shots of blood thinners for the rest of my life = if the port remains.  If the port is removed, no shots. I don’t relish the thought of taking chemo into my veins/arms..so I’d hope that I can keep the port and stick myself every day.  That is, IF I’m found to have a problem.  Again, more on this when I know..

Once our consult was over, Bruce waited in the car while I made my way to the floor at Froedtert, where I was housed for my treatments.  I was able to say goodbye and my thanks to a few of the nurses and most especially, to the Nurse Practitoner ~ Becky.  She had big, wet eyes and I told her “don’t you cry!”.  I didn’t want to become a big, sloppy puddle myself.  She spent so much time with me, more than just a ‘nurse’ when I was having treatments.  She got it, she listened, she pushed me in positive ways, and most of all = she cared.  I promised to come back.. that we’d not say GoodBye   Now, she’s not my nurse, she’s my friend.

and..  I will be back to Milwaukee.  Dr. Charlson will remain my doctor.  I asked and he said “you are my patient”.  Just a statement of fact.

He knows sarcoma.  I need him, as does Dr. Jazz.  I’m in very good hands

Even though I’m so glad this day is behind me, it was a good day..  a very good day

May 09, 2011

I met with Dr. Jazz today and we went over everything Bruce and I discussed with Dr. Charlson.

Dr. Jazz and Charlson agreed that the combo he (Dr. Charlson) was thinking of wouldn’t work..  because I had one part three years ago, as part of my first chemo-combo, and it didn’t halt growth.

I suggested that Dr. Jazz speak again with Dr. Charlson to ask if the 2nd part of this new combo (that I haven’t had) be given as a single agent.

It is ‘Navelbine’

He called me a few minutes ago and says that Dr. Charlson thought it a good idea.  Go me

I begin Wednesday and will get it weekly.  We’re thinking to go with it for 8 weeks and then take a break for two.  Also, we’ll scan at that time.

I’ll have another ultrasound tomorrow of my port vein = hoping not to find clots forming.  If we find clotting, I’ll have to begin taking daily shots of Lovenox, a blood thinner.

Hope not…

The stress of the past week is getting to me.  I am sporting a cool cold sore, had a ‘visual’ migraine this morning, and my heart is playing the drums again (palpitations)..constantly

..*phew… sure am hoping this all works out well

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Oops, almost forgot..  the biopsy for testing toward targeted therapy/molecular profiling :

Dr. Jazz is very leary..  Dr. Charlson had already expressed major concern about needing a fresh biopsy since it would have to come from my lungs.  He hoped we could get a biopsy from the tumors in my butt muscles.

Going into the lungs, not only does it sound like so not fun, but it’s also very risky.  It can cause pneumothorax,  infection, etc.

Dr. Jazz spoke with the radiologist today, who told him we’d have to get lung tissue and would need 6 needle core biopsies. Six times into my lungs…

eek

yeah, I guess we’ll be shelving that idea for now

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July 13, 2011

Well, here I am again..  finally.Yes, it’s been awhile!  I didn’t realize it had been so long between updates..  if I worried you, I understand and apologize.I began treatment with Navelbine (chemo) on May 11.In June (?) we went ahead with molecular profiling..  but using tissue from my uterus.The results came back and what treatments and therapies listed, that were successful against my cancer cell, we’ve already tried.Bummer..I continued with the Navelbine and had my CT scan, the first since beginning treatment, on Monday.

I saw Dr Jazz later that day.

News is not good

The treatment didn’t work whatsoever..the stuff is growing..  most worrisome is the tumor in my right lung that is impacting my heart..  though, looking at the CT, it’s quite overwhelming to see so many tumors..so big..everywhere

I knew it would not be good news.
I was promptly brought to a room for my visit with Dr Jazz…  and I could hear him, his muffled voice, in another room with a patient.  I heard him say goodbye.  Then he goes to his office and records his notes..  then would look over my CT report.
Normally, and with hopeful news, he’d be in to see me within 10 or 15 minutes.

Today, I sat there..  and sat there.  Time ticking away.  Minute after minute I knew it was bad and he was looking at the scan..  probably steeling himself, too, to tell me.
I waited nearly an hour…as the time ticked off, each second became torture ..  “just come and tell me already!”
I did say that aloud a couple of times..  trying to relieve stress.

I’ve become accustomed to reading his face when he enters..and his voice.
If a scan isn’ t great, he enters with a look of concern..intense
If a scan is good, he enters with a bright face and his voice very loud
Today, he entered and sort of bent down with a grimace on his face..  his voice was nearly a whisper
Not good…but, by then, I already knew

Options?  Nothing spectacular.  There is one chemo left to try, that was mentioned through the molecular profiling.

I asked about a newer drug that we know of..it’s not a chemo but a VEGF inhibitor.  It is approved for renal cancer but they’ve had some trial success with it for sarcomas. The staff has already begun the process of inquiry to see if our insurance will approve its use.
It will turn my hair white!  I told him that wouldn’t bother me in the least since I’ll never get to be an old lady – along with the white hair    *Often, I see older women and realize I’ll never ‘be one’..  so I would enjoy the white hair, most especially if the drug helped!

I asked that he consult with Dr Charlson/Froedtert.  He agreed to do so and will call me by Friday.

so.. I’m ok..  I sort of knew this was coming.  I could feel a change in my lungs for about a month.  Like a thickness..  congestion..more breathlessness with exertion, etc.
I’m not so much sad (well, yeah, a bit) as I am resigned.
I’m not giving up but I am accepting that my time is running out.

There are frightening possibilities ahead: pleural effusion, pericardial effusion, collapsed lung, pneumonia, or something so simple as in not being able to breathe.

>I wrote the above late Monday night..  Yesterday, came this:

I received several calls : from oncology staff, from the company that will handle the Votrient, from Dr Jazz.
Our insurance has agreed to cover the Votrient

The co-pay is reasonable and I will have my first supply delivered to me Thursday morning (July 14)
I will take it twice a day, as consistently as possible.

Monday, July 18, I will have baseline electrocardiogram, urine, blood work-up/liver and kidney, and blood pressure recorded.
I will have to be monitored for heart, kidney, and liver function throughout treatment.
I will have to take my blood pressure every day.

Now, let’s hope it helps me out.

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July 18, 2011

well, this getting used to the possibility of ‘end of life’ is definitely a process.

“Wait a minute!  This isn’t supposed to really happen to me..  Right??  I’m going to be different..I’m not going to die from this..  not me.  am I??”

I wish I had a magic key to turn it all off.  I wish I could twinkle my nose and make it all go away.

Instead, I meet with Ruth at GBOncology today.

Ruth, the PA who cries so readily.  Ruth who is so very compassionate and wears her heart on her sleeve.

Reality check today.  Another step in the process of acceptance.

Ruth went through about 8 tissues.

She’s going to get me set up with Palliative Home Care.  She stressed to me that it is Not Hospice.. but a precursor.  They will assist me with preparation for Hospice (when I’ll need it) and they can help me with anything I may need, even nurse visits if I have a concern – rather than schedule an appt. with Dr. Jazz or a nurse.  They can have a counselor visit me if I need to talk to someone who ‘gets it’.

I have to admit the idea crossed my mind a few days ago  “maybe I should get set up before the shit hits the fan’

Reality is creeping in..  “yes, I can die from this and possibly too soon”

The worst is that I can feel the results of the tumor impacting my heart.  It’s most noticeable now, when I bend over.  It pushes into my trachea and throat.

I have a cough at about the same location that hurts.

I asked for clarity today = about why we are going with the Votrient now, rather than hit it with the hard stuff, the Ifosfamide.

She says that the reason is that the Ifosfamide is very harsh and caustic, and if my system can’t handle it or if it hits my organs and blood marrow very hard, I will need recovery time and then I wouldn’t be able to have anything.

If I do the Votrient first and it fails, I can then do the Ifosfamide without having to wait for my body to recover.

Not comforting news ..I know

I’ve had all my baseline tests this morning and will be beginning taking the Votrient today

Also, I found out that I have a healing fractured rib!  Last August, when I had such pain and couldn’t breathe..  they first looked for a blood clot in my lung…then we found it was a new rib lesion.  What I didn’t know (until the radiologist remarked about it in my latest CT report) is that it was fractured.  Makes so much sense now.

The good news is that it seems I can eat anything I want without gaining weight!

.so I stopped at the Sunny Hill Farm truck and bought some delicious strawberries, blueberries and the biggest, tender kohlrabi.  No, none of that is going to make anyone fat.  but eating is a great pleasure and I’m going to go for it.  The whipped cream is going on thick..

(sweet corn by late next week, they hope!)

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October 19, 2011

Ughhh!  I know..  ‘where have I been?’

Truth  ..  I’ve been so involved with everything and nothing?  I’ve been coping by just focusing  ..   focusing on simplicity, the moment, quietness, cooking/mastering Thai & Vietnamese, baking breads and bagels, watching the bluebirds dance in the air ..  living

I canned dill pickles, I made and froze tons of basil pesto, I picked wild elderberries, twice, and made extraordinary jam with apple pectin I made myself, I made and canned a dozen quarts of delicious, garlicky, pasta sauce and packed up 8 quarts of oven-dried roma tomatoes in olive oil..  fun stuff and took my mind off of, well..  most everything that has wanted to weigh me down.

The past months have been very stressful but I’ve weathered them..  not easy but I had to.  I didn’t want to fall into a dark hole and not find my way out.

Thank goodness for my happy Bubble!! 

First the Yondelis failed (April)..then Navelbine had no effect..  then Votrient failed..but it first cause all my hair to come in white/everywhere.  The Votrient succeeded in stability with the smaller lung mets but I had growth of 40% in the larger mets.  Of course those bastards were immune..why not?  Freaking disease

I have recently completed two three-day courses of another chemo = Ifosfamide.  It isn’t as bad as I was fearing.  Really, I’ve had worse!  The worst was the first round.  I had to be hospitalized for the three days (how I HATE being confined!).  They wouldn’t allow me to leave the floor.  Sheesh, I felt like a dang inmate.

Thankfully, I didn’t have hallucinations or any psychotic moments (other than wanting to spear the night nurse who turned on the overhead Emergency lights at midnite! ..my God, that hurt, I couldn’t even open my eyes for the freakin pain..grrr..idiot!)  ..  no coma..  no sickness.  Yes, they had to do the treatment this way in order to monitor me.  I understood but begged to be able to continue treatments outpatient.  And I am!  I can go home after each 8 hour day..  blech, long days..but outpatient! (yay).  I took my Nintendo system along and played all day, each day which really made the hours fly

I’m still with Hospice and it’s been so helpful.  It’s taken so much concern off my shoulders..  and I like my nurse, Jessica, very much.  I am just getting to know my social worker, Susan, better.. but she’s been off for her wedding and honeymoon..  we had a long, lovely meeting just days ago and yes, we’ll do fine together.

I’m bald again..  and it’s not so bad this time.  It has many pros, like no need to do anything with hair products, driers, irons, etc.  Letting the car windows down..  no mussed up hair.  It’s easy breezy   I bought new, bigger scarves and tie them at the side of my neck (not in back)…  so I look more ‘fashionable’..  and!  more like a pirate, hahaa.  My girlfriend gave me some big silver hoops to finish the ‘look’..  arrr matey.

*sigh, now the serious stuff

Tomorrow I will have a CT scan to see if this latest chemo is helping.

With so many recent failures, I have been determined this time.. not to be hopeful..  as well?..  I’m not giving up.  I am in zen mode..  choosing to stay in the middle of the road..  not veering off into fear nor high hopes.  To have hope and find out that things are worse is simply too emotionally terrible.

I don’t want to feel that again, so afraid and so low.  Yes, zen is where I am.

The last scan..  Dr Jazz was just a wreck.  So sad.  He spoke to me of considering my quality of life..  if this chemo doesn’t help.  He spoke to me of choosing to end all treatment  ..if this one doesn’t help.  He is preparing me.

I took the hint and have been preparing.  Zen, rae..  zen.

For the first time ever, instead of reaching his hand to me to shake mine..  he opened his arms and invited a hug.  I can cry just thinking of it.  He gave me a long, warm hug and told me how sorry he is that we’re nearing the end of the road.

yeah! Then I have to walk out into the waiting room and hold myself together??  Not happening folks.  I think he must have a button to alert everyone out there, all the receptionists.  They surrounded me, literally.  We all cried and hugged..  it was pretty awesome but you’re still in a public place and so vulnerable

So, with that said, I’ll leave it here…  losing my zen thing

I will be back tomorrow late day..  or maybe Friday with my results

♥

…………………. * addt’l news * …………………. October 20, 2011

Had my scan and saw Dr Jazz..

Good News, Finally!!

My tumors have shrunk!  The dictation by the radiologist wasn’t written yet, but I saw the scan from Sept. against todays..and the shrinkage was visible.  We’re assuming at least 15% less

So!  I’ll see it snow again..  hopefully celebrate my birthday in January..  see the new Spring?

All of those moments were in jeopardy..    t’was hard to accept that I could be dead in some weeks or months.  Surreal.

Dr Jazz (being a buzz-kill) assured me that this sarcoma will take me one day..  it will happen.  Sure, but maybe not so soon..and maybe not before some new treatment is found to be effective against this subtype of sarcoma.  I’ve been given Time..and so hope that there will be further shrinkage of lung mets.

Monday I will begin my third round of Ifosfamide/Mesna for three days and not complain one bit!  hahaa

I can barely wait to wake up tomorrow!  This heavy (subconcious) dread will be lifted..  but I’m staying in zen mode and dwelling in the ole, comfy Happy Bubble..  joyfully

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November 03, 2011

Sharing a wonderful thing some have done for me

Enjoy

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►December 26, 2011

I hope you all had a lovely and Merry Christmas and a warm and Happy Chanukah!

I certainly did

My present came on Friday, the 23rd…  in the form of a very excited and LOUD phone call from Dr. Jazz.

*Recall once, I told you that when he has good news, he speaks very loudly?

I had a scan that morning and wasn’t expecting to get the results until tomorrow, the 27th.

Dr Jazz was speaking so fast he was tripping over his words:  “It’s good!  All the tumors have shrunk..  I’d estimate at least 20-30%!!”

He spoke of how he dreaded seeing my scan come in..  he didn’t expect good news..

But we got it!  and now you know it too

I’ve been smiling ever since..  and will begin my three day treatment again, tomorrow

.. Happily ♥

Thank you All for supporting me and for your prayers and healing vibes..  they Work!

I dearly appreciate your part in this, My Friends

here is a  normal shoulder xray (not mine)

side by side xrays of my shoulder: